The passing of a loved one is incredibly difficult on anyone, and it can be far more difficult when you’re the one planning for their funeral. Your mind simply isn’t in the right place, so it’s common to accidentally neglect details or struggle to complete certain aspects. To help you along, allow us to teach you some of the biggest funeral-planning mistakes to avoid, so we can help guide you down the right path.
Neglecting the Reception
One particular burden on the funeral planner’s shoulders is accounting for the grief of all those who attend. The reception is not just part of the ceremony, it’s also a chance for friends and family to support each other as they process their grief. This social aspect is crucial because being isolated during such periods of grief may only exacerbate the situation. However, keep in mind that a reception is beneficial for you; it’s a place where you can seek support and celebrate the life of your loved one.
Forgetting To Ask Questions
Always ask questions. This is one of the biggest funeral-planning mistakes to avoid because if you don’t ask questions then you’ll quickly feel like you’re entirely on your own. Keep in touch with the funeral director or other professionals involved in the process. Their expertise will give you valuable insight that will make preparations easier and help you share the burden of putting everything together.
Not Finding the Right Services
Lastly, when it comes to getting ahold of the services necessary for the funeral to take place, make sure you still take the time to consider your options. Don’t settle for the first funeral home you come across. Do a little bit of research; discover what other funeral homes are available in order to get the best for yourself and the funeral. In their grief, many people don’t give selecting a funeral home much thought. Additionally, many people wish to commemorate the service and hire photographers. What they don’t realize, however, is that there are certain qualities to look for in a funeral photographer such as making sure they’re sensitive of those grieving and aren’t invasive during the funeral. The sobriety of funerals require photographers with unique, extensive experience.
