There are many good reasons to have a prenuptial agreement. Yes, the agreement does protect both parties during a divorce, but there are also benefits unrelated to a separation.
If a spouse passes away in an accident or is left comatose, a prenuptial agreement can guide you on what to do next. Read on to learn how to talk to your partner about a prenuptial agreement.
The Right Tone Is Essential
Your tone may be more important than the words you say. There’s no doubt that this subject comes with the potential for conflict, so it helps to start the conversation calmly. We’d suggest reaching out to a divorce attorney before you talk to your partner—divorce attorneys are experts on these agreements and can answer common questions. If nothing else, you should avoid a rude or defensive tone.
Have the Conversation Early
It’s much better to talk about a prenup right after your engagement than immediately before your wedding day. It may take a while for your partner to process the discussion, and that’s okay. You don’t have to agree to sign a prenup right away, but talking can help lay the groundwork.
Make Them Feel Equal
Even though you’re suggesting the prenup, you’ll each have your own lawyer to negotiate it. The agreement isn’t an opportunity for one spouse to “win” over the other; instead, it’s a way for both parties to enter a marriage with reasonable protections. Reassure your partner that they’ll have an equal say during the process and that their concerns will also be part of the agreement.
It’s not too late even if you’re reading this article after your wedding. Consider the benefits of a postnuptial agreement—the only difference is when you sign it.
Now that you know how to talk to your partner about a prenuptial agreement, have a calm conversation and plan what’s best for both of you!
